How to Become the Person You've Always Wanted to Be

  • Publisert 10 måneder siden

    Natacha Océane

    Runtime: 14:11

    The biggest lessons that have changed my life and helped me become the person I want to be ♥️
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Natacha Océane
Natacha Océane

This is so our year, you have no idea 🥰🙏💛

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aly
aly

LMAOOO SIKE

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Kate Keskinen
Kate Keskinen

oh to read this comment in September 2020! what a weird ride!

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Áine Órga
Áine Órga

I had SO much optimism for 2020 too, this makes me a little sad. Just doing what I can at the moment and looking forward to getting our freedom back later.

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Safah Mahate
Safah Mahate

LMAOOOO girl, I love you. But it's def NOT our year 😦

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queeneva3
queeneva3

lol we didn't have any idea did we

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Germein Zaky
Germein Zaky

This really hit me, spoke straight to my heart. I started a doctoral program a couple of months and have been feeling everything you described and like I'm being chipped away by the pressure I'm putting on myself. I was meant to come across your channel last week, go down a rabbit hole of watching your videos, to end up at this one

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Poniros ForEver
Poniros ForEver

That's the worst intro ever. "I was so successful at 21! If you're older than that you're f@@cked!"

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Iris Metani
Iris Metani

Such a lovely video! Thank you Natasha

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Dear Caity
Dear Caity

Amazing video 🥰

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Clark Webb
Clark Webb

This video is so good! Redefining "success" for yourself is SO key to figuring out who you are meant to be. Finding and reading "The Four Agreements" helped me understand who I "wanted to be" was based on others' agreements and projections in my life. Now I have my own agreements and life is good! Have you read it? So good!

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nidhi kini
nidhi kini

1) WHO do you want to be? Your idea of an ideal life spent should be your own, not somebody else's. Start doing what makes you happy, fulfilled and content, what makes you look forward to living life. 2) Small steps will take you a million miles. Have a goal in mind, a destination? Start with taking baby steps. And remember that it is okay to suck ("Fall down seven times, stand up eighth"). Just keep moving ahead with those small baby steps. 3) Take the pressure off of yourself. Too much pressure and over thinking can hinder you instead of letting you grow. Sometimes competion can be really helpful, but not everyone needs that pressure all the time. When you truly enjoy something, you just get things done. So find your motivator (like for Natacha, it's JOY). If you've tried and tried and tried and it's still not working for you, it's probably not meant for you. Or, tweak it to a version that works for you. 4) Calculate + Jump Take calculated risks. Ask yourself - what's the worst that could happen? And if you think long enough, you'll realise that you can probably survive it. ("If you don't risk anything, you risk even more"). If you're hesitant to take the plunge, ask yourself if you can live with the regret of not doing it. 5) Nailing the basics. Like a good night's sleep; healthy and tasty nutrition; the people you surround yourselves with (who make you a better version of yourself); and the environment (positive). Having all these puts you in a really good place to think clearly. But, don't force perfection. It's okay if it's not always on point. They are just really good foundations to work with. 6) Don't duplicate. From all that you see and learn, take the information for inspiration, not duplication. Just because someone does it a certain way doesn't mean you have to, too. Find what works for you the best and stick to it. To summarise, start from #5 nailing the basics and #1 figuring out WHO do you want to be and then go from there.

28 dager siden
복지유
복지유

I am watchng this right now and feeling so relieved, you have no idea. So grateful to you for being such an inspiration; you might have just changed my opinion of myself which may change my life now. Wow. Thank you

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Nari S
Nari S

you're literally my favorite

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Franchezka Marie Cel Vito
Franchezka Marie Cel Vito

she's intelligent, nice, strong, sexy and has the most positive vibe i've ever seen :(( i wish i could be like her

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Sara Nox
Sara Nox

Guys, I am about to downgrade to a dumbphone and unplug from my iphone duo to become the person who I want to be.

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Nabina Ganguly
Nabina Ganguly

I have been trying so hard to do all the things that you are talking about and I feel great when someone else talks about going through the same processes.

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J Lee
J Lee

Wow I started following you recently and I didn't realise how similar I was to you. I'm about to start a PhD in Neuroscience, I also tutored sciences before, have been published in journals this year, and of course I used to put myself under huge pressure which seriously stifled my potential.

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AllysaLowe
AllysaLowe

How dl you take calculated risks?

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Clarice Phillips
Clarice Phillips

Lmao that Mario robot part GOT ME 🤣🤣🤣

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Desiree Galvan
Desiree Galvan

Wow what an awesome and truthful video. I absolutely loved it! I started watching your videos about a month ago and I really enjoy watching how you have experienced life and how you take those experiences and teach others on youtube maybe how to go through the same things as best as possible. You are so humble and so sweet! I wish I could meet you! Anyways, I hope you are doing well and I hope you have a great day! -Des :)

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Claudia Pak
Claudia Pak

why did i think the title said how to become beyoncé

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Anna Magdalena
Anna Magdalena

This really touched me 😘

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Marie
Marie

Thank you Natacha!

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reyhan kln
reyhan kln

I don't know why but I was smiling during this video like it was truly touching my heart

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macy turner
macy turner

i want to be a bender from the avatar world 👁👄👁 how do i be that? i want to be that.

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Stefania Rivers
Stefania Rivers

I don’t know but I got so emotional on the story about meeting that guy. In my opinion he was mean 😅

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Jitha Vimal
Jitha Vimal

My morning routine literally consists of listening to this ;) thanks Natacha. You do inspire!

2 måneder siden
Paola Contreras
Paola Contreras

This was so good and so necessary for me to hear right now I watched it twice in a row

2 måneder siden
tianasharpe67
tianasharpe67

This gave me so much motivation in life

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tripps42
tripps42

That's exactly what it has been going on in my life for 4-5 years. I put way too much pressure on myself regarding university, until the point I developed an anxiety disorder and panic disorder. I finally believed I could get over it and I went to a therapist last year, but I damaged my mind and my psyche so much always thinking I'm stupid and not good enough. It started comparing myself to other students and it shifted to comparing myself to a distorted image of what I should have been, and that's poisoning. To everyone reading this comment: keep working hard but try to shake a little bit of pressure off yourself. It's not easy to always believe in yourself but failing something doesn't mean you cannot try again next time and it doesn't mean you are not good enough.

3 måneder siden
Jayla Vidal
Jayla Vidal

Your video was soooo 💕helpful and so encouraging thank you 😊 so much you don’t know how this touched me.

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Iza Westman
Iza Westman

Natacha I LOVE your videos so much and I´m recognizing myself so much in how sensitive you get thinking about hard times/good times/beautiful stuff and always tear up with you. It´s hard to find good role models but you inspire me SO MUCH to be stronger, happier and to learn more about stuff i find interesting. Been watching your videos and on hard days I always feel a 'lil bit better afterwards. Even splurged in some roller blades because of you! ;) You´re my fav! Keep it up! 💕

3 måneder siden
Rishika Sen
Rishika Sen

Can I do bodyweight exercise right after having something kinda snacks or half breakfast kinda portion?..

3 måneder siden
Siddharth Sharma
Siddharth Sharma

Absolutely love the video, thank you :')

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Masha
Masha

I love your videos ans watch them for fun, in my free time BUT, I really thought this through and I am 100%sure, It's just the truth, that I would still have misconceptions about food and that I'd still think I should have no more than 52 kilos and eat no more than 1200 kcal daily and that if I don't get to that point (also only vegan and completely healthy not processed food) I am a failure. You have really changed my life and maybe I would get to that point myself one day but it would take much longer and who knows how long that obsessive guilty feeling would've stayed with me had it not been for you. So, thank you. You are a wonderful human being.

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Emma Everett
Emma Everett

I love this so much

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Samantha A
Samantha A

Thank you so much

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Sara Wallis
Sara Wallis

Thank U so much! You are very encouraging!

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Kelsey B
Kelsey B

I’m late to the Natacha party, but I definitely say “better late than never”. This video (and many of your videos) speak to me so much. This one was needed! I put so much pressure on myself and it’s so hard. Deciding what you want to do is so hard. I’m so happy to have found your channel and think we need more inspirational, positive, REALISTIC people in the world. It sounds silly, but your videos remind me that looking up to someone does not mean I have to compare myself to them. It’s very hard, but possible! It’s also so important to focus on what works for someone you do look up to might not work for you and IT’S OK! I look forward to more videos! 💕

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Nelly Corrales
Nelly Corrales

I can honestly say i admire u so much for living your own truth ! is so hard to break away for this systmatic believes of who you need to be in life. I took all my savings that were supposed to be for a masters degree and decided to go backpack in europe, and even tho im back in my country to the same circumstances of life, im just a different person and i dont regret any of it. Lessons learned for sure. Now is time to plan a little more towards the future and thats were i get stuck.... But find what you love and take calculated risks are awesome advices ill take in place. Hope to meet you in person someday and have a cup of coffee. best of luck in all your projects!

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Watermelon Fitness
Watermelon Fitness

Incredible advice! Thank you :)

4 måneder siden
AliMakingMyWay
AliMakingMyWay

You're such a beautiful soul. Thanks for this, I really needed this today. I've been so lost and this was that little nudge I needed to start becoming who I'm meant to be.

4 måneder siden
Kersten Cornelisse
Kersten Cornelisse

This to me, was so special and inspiring. Thank you Natacha, your vibe is the best!

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Michelle Sesin
Michelle Sesin

This is amazing. Thank you so much

5 måneder siden
Rohini drury
Rohini drury

I think you are completely inspirational! I identify with your genuine and smiley nature and find it utterly refreshing 👌

5 måneder siden
Ilona Pankevich
Ilona Pankevich

I constantly think that I am surrounded with not right people, but I cannot find the right ones.

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Buttered Toast
Buttered Toast

I’m now just thinking of the 20 ways I could die trying a handstand 😂

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Sam Kemp
Sam Kemp

I've watched you since the beginning and you are always so inspirational x

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Ana Budimir
Ana Budimir

Everything u say is so true and very inspiring ❤️❤️

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Nina Thomas
Nina Thomas

I felt your pain at 6:00 when you almost started crying! Panic attacks and anxiety are so painful and you’re right about removing that pressure from ourselves.

5 måneder siden
Anastassia Marr
Anastassia Marr

wow I LOVE YOU

5 måneder siden
Karolina Łukacz
Karolina Łukacz

I love watching your videos! You are creative and you are honest and kind person :) Greetings from Poland

5 måneder siden
uhu stick
uhu stick

thats so true. i put so much pressure on me. thats why i dont graduate highschool ´cause i had several panic attacks in the tests

5 måneder siden
NerdItMe
NerdItMe

Natacha, you spread such an important message, thank you so much for making these wonderful videos!!

5 måneder siden
Kate
Kate

you're such an inspiration! i love to watch your videos and really look up to you

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A Che
A Che

"surround yourself with supportive people" 2020: Stay home, do not see anyone, avoid humans at all costs

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Anna Мinasyan
Anna Мinasyan

this is the first video I saw from Natacha and since then my life changed. I'm so inspired by her

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Macenzie Humphreys
Macenzie Humphreys

This is an amazing video, thank you!

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Logy El-Bledy
Logy El-Bledy

you're the sweetest person ever, I genuinely love you

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4kibamb 0n
4kibamb 0n

This is all great and everything, but the real question is - how do I figure out what I want? I am 21, changed 2 unis and 2 majors, had a lot of different experiences in my life, and still have no freaking clue what to do with my life. Nor do I have any skills for a job I won't hate. I feel so lost in life smb plz send help

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Elsemieke
Elsemieke

I just found your channel today and love your videos already, totally binche watching them! Your warm personality just pops of the screen!

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Isabella Wu
Isabella Wu

I need to figure out what works for me ^u^ Thanks, Natacha! You're a gem~

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PentiFyre
PentiFyre

I just found this video and let me say, I bawled through it. I've been struggling So Hard with trying to do what I love and trying to be what my family wants me to be. I really needed to hear someone else say that it's ok to find & be who you really are and it's ok to do what you truly love. So glad I found this channel.

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Chelsea Lynn
Chelsea Lynn

This is wonderful! I teared up while watching. I think we are as people so extremely hard on ourselves and it’s important to reflect on this and let ourselves know we are enough as we are right now!! 😘😘😘😘😘💓💓💓💓👏👏👏

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Lina Useche
Lina Useche

Omg i love you

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Debanjana Mallick
Debanjana Mallick

Thanks alot for this video❤love from India!

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WAP WAP
WAP WAP

I get that feeling when I make people laugh.

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B
B

Ok I know I shouldn’t laugh but the story of you showing mario your backflip is really funny 😂😂😂😂😂

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kat
kat

I see myself in you. The whole stress thing, pushing myself too much, the urge to be the best and competing with myself... Thank you! You are an absolutely inspiring person, I love your videos and thank you for everything, you are trying to tell us!

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Taylor Medlin
Taylor Medlin

Amazing advice!!! Thank you for being so encouraging and actually caring about us 💗💗

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Michaela Ampudia
Michaela Ampudia

natacha is honestly one of the most influential and heartwarming youtubers to watch because of how purely genuine she is, she is so passionate about so many things and she motivates me to be a better person. thank you natacha I love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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настя корн
настя корн

no way he droped u off so early.(((((((

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Happy Singh
Happy Singh

Amazing video, very inspiring !!

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Natalia Olejniczak
Natalia Olejniczak

Thank you so much, so needed and really helpful, I could go on and on, but basically I really appreciate you, I love what you do and who you are 😊💖 and this is definetely the most underrated youtube account !!!!

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endless22549
endless22549

my heart stopped

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Rachel Neale
Rachel Neale

I totally agree with everything you said # newbie

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Lana Tymchyk
Lana Tymchyk

You are incredible! Thank you for being so honest about your achievements and failures and the way you think about them. It is really inspiring :)

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romina velayati
romina velayati

I love youuuuuuuu 😍😍

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Kamryn Topasna
Kamryn Topasna

Thank you for all your valuable vids Natacha! I watched your whole video but what really resonated with me was “who you want to be vs who you think you’re suppose to be”. I’m 21, still live with my parents and I know what I want to be, I just never really trusted myself. It’s also hard doing the right things because you don’t want to be selfish. Everyone’s journey is different but I definitely have taken something from this video. You’re amazing ❤️

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Kamryn Topasna
Kamryn Topasna

I can relate to this on so many levels. I just can’t seem to express myself in the way I want to express it.

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Jay Sewell
Jay Sewell

your energy in this video is so upbeat and inspiring, regardless of the content of what's said, the vibe just got me motivated :D

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meow meow
meow meow

At the beginning I thought that video would make me even more depressed.

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Alisa Miettinen
Alisa Miettinen

This is such an important lesson! I love the fact of how you talk about not copying other people's routines/lives cos sometimes they just don't work for you. I myself haven't figured all out, but I do know I love helping people. And one thing that I do for that is writing a blog. I write it on making personal development and self-discovery realistic and sustainable for you. So if some of you want to check it out it's www.changedlife365.com :D Hope it helps too :D !

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Bess Art
Bess Art

I love you so much, Natacha, you're such a light

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Ricardo Hidalgo
Ricardo Hidalgo

Dude you are WISE!! Thanks for these vids. So much value.

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Michelle Roth
Michelle Roth

It's sucks being 33 and still feeling lost... Thoughts overcome me, I'm too old to change, I need to take responsibility etc

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dipika d
dipika d

You're never too old to change. 33 is nothing pfft. You got this!!

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Allegra D.C.
Allegra D.C.

Nov. last year I was supposed to take a break from my engineering degree to become a ski instructor in Austria. A week before I was meant to leave I completely tore my ACL. Usually, I wouldn’t be able to ski after that for 9-12 months, but I took a massive calculated risk and decided to go for the Jan exam after two months of intense rehab. Best decision of my life 😊 now I can be a ski instructor and an engineer just like my grandad

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HAZIFER HAZIF
HAZIFER HAZIF

10:40 IMO, it's because you've invested a lot into that short relationship already. You really hoped for something out of it. Could also be a bit approval seeking, I'm guessing you are past that though. Loved the video

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פני וולקוב
פני וולקוב

you are so awsome !! thank you very mach, i just love you :)

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Katyutzka Villarreal
Katyutzka Villarreal

I actually discovered your channel, I really love your content! I’m an undergraduate student of chemistry and I’ve wondering a lot about what I want to be, at the beginning I thought I’ll be doing a Ph.D in Germany but now I’ve realised I really love teaching to others the beauty of science and I recently started my journey of be more fitness. I really want to say thanks for sharing this! ♥️

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Celin
Celin

Favourite YouTuber! Love you girl xx

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sicmic
sicmic

You just got yourself a new sub.

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Naomi Cherie
Naomi Cherie

I learnt something pretty interesting from you today. I often labelled myself as “Depression.” And I do have it and I do still take meds for it, but because I didn’t portray myself as nothing more than “Depression,” I chose people to just judge me as that. And I realized the reason why people sometimes put limits on me is because i PUT THE LIMIT ON MYSELF FIRST. I allowed people to judge me as a single card instead of a deck of cards which I am and which you who are reading is too. How I choose to do me, to love me, be me, sends a message to others on how they should treat me. It is why the men who have no money, no good looks, probably heading to jail like James Manson and Ted Bundy or even Carole fucking king, have people adoring them when they aren’t that great in any way. They have nothing to give these people...But yet they still influence others so magnetically! So. I’m no longer a victim, I’m no longer the “only one suffering and sad and suicidal.” Yes, I’m still suffering. I still cry alot. I still fucking worry all the time but gosh what a realization.

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A p q H
A p q H

Was that Thomas Frank?

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A p q H
A p q H

@Natacha Océane The guy lying on the bed at 12.51, he's one of my favorite youtubers when it comes to productivity and habit building. I really liked this video btw!

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Natacha Océane
Natacha Océane

I don’t know who that is. Which part? Xx

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Anne Frank
Anne Frank

I wish I could show this channel to every single person in the world! You probably won't see this comment but I want to let you know that ever since I found your channel you have been my biggest inspiration! Your mindset about health, fitness and success is unbeatable. I love how you encourage me to be a better person. I'm a total stranger to you yet you've changed my life in ways that you'll never understand. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.❤

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Gaby Valle Aubry
Gaby Valle Aubry

you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. you are amazing

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Sadhika Laxman
Sadhika Laxman

thank you so much for making this video

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Seán O'Mahony
Seán O'Mahony

Hey @natacha , been doing some of your home workouts. Great stuff. Takes courage to put up a video like that, you should check out Gabor Mate on authenticity.

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Agnese GLL
Agnese GLL

I needed to hear this, thank you so much 🥰

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Is Lo
Is Lo

Merci c'etait super. Exactement ce qu'il me fallait entendre :) New Subscriber :)

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grace shank
grace shank

This is so perfect. Thank you. I think it is important to separate "I should" from "I want".

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Kitsunix
Kitsunix

You talking about the panic attack in your exam reminds me of a maths exam I had years ago. I should have passed it fairly easily but I completely panicked about it. I got literally zero sleep the night before, a teacher commented before I went in that I looked green. I was so tired and stressed I couldn't think properly and failed :/ It's crazy how we can be our own worst enemy....

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Sabrina Meyer
Sabrina Meyer

i have seen sooo many youtube videos (more than a thousand i am sure) but this is honestly one of the best i have ever been lucky enough to see!

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Blackandhue
Blackandhue

How old are you now? And what's your height? BTW.. I love you❤ :')

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